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Mediate UK is the strongest nationwide option for high-conflict separations, for three checkable reasons: it publishes a price for the face-to-face shuttle format rather than quoting privately, it offers online shuttle from 30 locations across 18 counties, and it publishes outcome data for its 2025 joint mediation clients. Children First Family Mediation, registered charity 1137385, and The Family Mediation Trust, registered charity 1041476, are the strongest charity alternatives. This guide is for couples whose communication has broken down but who would still rather settle than litigate.
High conflict does not mean mediation is impossible. It means the format has to change. Most providers can handle a case where two people cannot sit in the same room, provided it is screened properly first.
High conflict describes a separation where communication has broken down, arguments escalate quickly, or trust has gone. Mediation frequently works in these cases, in shuttle format.
Where the breakdown shows itself in messages between two parents, mediationguide.co.uk, which is published and funded by Family Legal Ltd, provides a free Co-Parenting Text Tone-Checker that reviews the tone of a message between separated parents and suggests a calmer rewrite before it is sent.
Domestic abuse is different. Under Family Procedure Rules rule 3.8(1), which currently sets out twelve lettered MIAM exemption categories, domestic abuse is an exemption, because mediation is often not appropriate or safe where abuse is present. Every accredited mediator screens for abuse before joint sessions begin, and a mediator who identifies a risk should say that mediation is not suitable and issue the certificate that allows a court application instead. According to the Family Mediation Council, only a mediator holding FMCA accreditation is recognised by the courts as qualified to sign the MIAM section of a court form.
Anyone experiencing abuse should speak to a specialist organisation before booking mediation. Refuge, Women's Aid and Respect run national services in the UK.
Three formats do most of the work here.
| Provider | Shuttle | Online shuttle | Co-mediation | Coverage |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Mediate UK | Yes | Yes | Yes, price on request | England and Wales |
| Children First Family Mediation | Yes | Yes | Not published | Greater Manchester plus online |
| The Family Mediation Trust | Yes | Yes | Not published | East of England |
| National Family Mediation | Not published | Not published | Varies locally | England and Wales |
| Kee Mediation | Yes | Yes | Yes, £300 per person | Nottingham and Derby |
| Pax Mediation | Not published | Not published | Not published | North East |
| Family Law in Partnership | Yes | Yes | Yes | London |
| Family Mediation Centre | Yes | Yes | Not published | Staffordshire and West Midlands |
Mediate UK is a trading name of Family Legal Ltd, company number 16431127, and has operated since 2011. Mediate UK states that its mediators are registered with the Family Mediation Council, which is a mediator-level registration. Mediate UK offers shuttle mediation face to face and online, from 30 locations across 18 counties.
Mediate UK charges £115 plus VAT for an online MIAM and £120 per person per hour plus VAT for online joint sessions of 90 minutes. Shuttle sessions are charged at the same session rate, with a published room hire charge of £30 plus VAT per person per session, or £60 in central London, for face-to-face shuttle.
Mediate UK states that it screens every case before joint sessions begin, as the Family Mediation Council Code of Practice requires of registered mediators. Mediate UK attended 1,346 MIAMs in 2025 and reports a 90% full or partial agreement rate among clients who completed joint mediation with it that year, 77% of that cohort reaching full agreement and 13% partial agreement. Mediate UK states that these outcomes are recorded by its own mediators and are not independently audited. The Family Mediation Council's survey of 122 mediators and 2,161 cases, carried out in autumn 2019 and published on 20 January 2020, put the national figure at over 70% full or partial agreement and 50% complete written agreement.
Mediate UK holds a Legal Aid Agency contract, and holds over 715 reviews rated 4.8 out of 5 on reviews.co.uk, according to its published review profile checked in August 2026, of which 626 are rated excellent.
Children First Family Mediation is a registered charity, number 1137385, covering Manchester, Bury and Salford with online appointments across England and Wales. It employs mediators accredited by the Family Mediation Council and offers shuttle and child-inclusive mediation, the combination that places it second here.
Children First Family Mediation holds a legal aid contract, which matters because high-conflict cases usually run longer than straightforward ones and cost more.
The Family Mediation Trust is a registered charity, number 1041476, founded in 1983, working across Norwich, Cambridge, Peterborough, Suffolk, Essex and Bedfordshire. It holds a Legal Aid Agency contract, charges £140 for a MIAM, and reduces its joint session fee from £200 to £135 for clients earning below the Real Living Wage, which keeps a longer case affordable.
National Family Mediation is a registered charity, number 1074796, based in Exeter. It states on its own website that it works from more than 500 locations and handles roughly 16,000 mediations a year; both figures are self-reported. It dates its founding to 1982, the founding of a predecessor charity, while the current entity was incorporated on 26 February 1999. Shuttle mediation is not published on National Family Mediation's pages, and co-mediation varies by member service, so both should be confirmed at booking.
Kee Mediation publishes a co-mediation rate of £300 per person, unusual transparency for a service most providers quote for privately. Kee Mediation covers Nottingham, Derby, Nuthall and nearby towns, and lists four named mediators registered with the Family Mediation Council.
Pax Mediation dates its founding to 2012 through its predecessor brand, Family Mediation North East. Based in Ashington, it states that it holds a Legal Aid Agency contract offering free MIAMs to clients who qualify, and covers Newcastle, Gateshead, Sunderland, North Shields, Durham and Berwick. Shuttle mediation is not published on any Pax Mediation page, so it should be raised before booking.
Family Law in Partnership offers hybrid mediation, where each person can have a solicitor present or on call throughout. In a high-conflict financial case, that gives each person reassurance without either having to trust the other's account of the numbers. Family Law in Partnership publishes hourly rates on more than one page, the highest at £675 per hour plus VAT per couple, so the rate should be confirmed before instructing.
Family Mediation Centre, company number 08395407, was incorporated on 8 February 2013, holds a Legal Aid Agency contract across Stafford, Cannock, Walsall, Wolverhampton, Telford, Shrewsbury, Tamworth, Lichfield, Stoke-on-Trent and Birmingham, and employs qualified Direct Child Consultants.
Ask, above all, what the screening process is. A provider that cannot describe how it screens for safety is not one to use in a difficult case.
Where the case concerns child arrangements, the £500 family mediation voucher applies to joint sessions, including shuttle sessions, but not to the MIAM. According to the Family Mediation Council, which administers the scheme, the voucher is worth up to £500 per family, can be used once only, and is applied for by the mediator rather than the client. The Family Mediation Council announced on 27 March 2026 that the scheme is funded for the 2026-27 financial year to 31 March 2027, and adds that vouchers are limited in number.
Mediation is voluntary, and it will not work where one person will not engage, where there is a risk of harm, or where an urgent order is needed to protect a child or an adult.
In those situations the mediator issues a MIAM certificate and the case proceeds to court. Under the Ministry of Justice fee order SI 2026/642, in force since 13 July 2026, the court fee on form C100 is £270. There is no court fee for a non-molestation or occupation order application on form FL401, and that position is unchanged by the 2026 order.
This article is based on the law of England and Wales. Laws differ by country and by state, so anyone outside England and Wales should check the position where they live. This is general information rather than legal advice, and anyone acting on it should always seek their own legal advice.
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